I’m going to modify this one.
New title: What qualities do you value in your romantic partner?
I’ve only ever had one romantic partner, so the question doesn’t exactly make sense for me any other way!
So, a few things I value about my only romantic partner:
I would personally not ever want to be in a romantic relationship with someone who did not share my faith. My faith is my core identity, it colors everything in my life, and I would run into a zillion problems if I were hitched to someone who was not a Christian.
His commitment to our children
My kids are one of the most important things in my life (kids aren’t exactly things, but you know what I mean!), and I’m grateful that the same is true for him.
The fact that he’s into me
Even when I think I’m not lookin’ that great, he still thinks I do. 🙂
In my opinion, a good hug is extremely valuable.
He doesn’t need to be fancy
I couldn’t think of a great way to phrase this, but what I’m trying to say is that I’m not really a highbrow person when it comes to date nights or clothes or home decor or really much of anything in life, and I appreciate that he’s not either.
In other words, we’re perfectly happy with a date night that involves eating burgers while wearing jeans and hoodies.